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Born to be Wild


Hubby and I are having one of those weeks where we are feeling burnt out and tired. On Tuesday evening, we decided to order-in pizza (haven’t done that since mid-January!) and eat dinner with the kids in front of the television. Sort of a comfort-food and comfort-visual evening.

It’s fairly impossible for us to find anything that we all want to watch due to a combination of ages and interests. The only thing we can ever manage to agree upon is a wildlife documentary. So I flipped over to Rogers On-Demand to see what kind of documentary I could stir up.

I found “Born to be Wild.” We all loved it. So maybe your family might too? It’s got adorable baby animals combined with inspiring and compassionate humans. Plus gorgeous visuals from faraway lands. Oh, and Morgan Freeman as narrator. What’s not to love, really.

If you’ve seen it, what did you think of it? If not, here is a short trailer to give you a taste.

 


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Impractical Purchasing: The Bicycle Edition (Part 2 of 2)


Okay, so where were we?

Ah, yes, I had rudely let the season three finale of Glee interrupt my story about my (lack of) bicycle. And since then I also let two children with fevers, a work project, and countless other errands get in the way too. Geez – where are my priorities??

Let’s get back at this, shall we? I had walked away from the oh-so-cute retro bike with custom painting so that I could choose something more practical that fit better into my allotted “bike budget.” At this point in the day, I wasn’t about to head to more stores. Max, at this stage, was still very much enjoying his afternoon naps. He is also a very big and heavy boy and hard for me to carry so I wanted to get him back to the car before he decided to curl right up in a store and take his siesta. So off we went.

But as we were walking back to where the car was parked, I saw an interesting sign. It was right outside a beautiful little church in the Westboro area of Ottawa and it read: “West End Studio Tour.” This is a walking, biking and self-drive tour that artists organize, and where they welcome you into their studio and you can see where and how they work, as well as some recent pieces. It takes place every September, but only for a short period of time. I was very intrigued. The sign had a pocket attached to it; I pulled out a map with a list of artist studios from the pocket. I know what you’re thinking — it would be a real shame to miss such a unique opportunity …

You read my mind! So off we went.

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"Soul of the Forest," by Alison Fowler

There was one artist in particular who I’d been wanting to meet for a while: Alison Fowler. Some of my friends had her work in their homes and it really spoke to me. I know her poppies are very popular, but I am especially fond of her tree trunks (see an example above).

But the way the map winded around the streets, it made sense to first pop in to see David W. Jones, Lynette Chubb, and Andrew King. By the time I was approaching King’s studio, Max was losing patience with this whole notion. It also certainly didn’t help that when I opened the ground floor door to get to King’s studio, all I saw was an enormous, steep set of stairs. Would Max make it?

Well, I decided to find out. And I am sooo glad I did! I am a huge King fan now. As soon as I walked into his studio, I recognized his work — I’d seen some of his paintings featured in Ottawa-area magazines and the Ottawa Citizen. He has a straight-edged, stark style that he usually combines with a bit of irony. And clever titles. I like clever titles.

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"Peggy Arrives," by Andrew King

So I walked about his studio, admiring his work — most of it already stickered up as “sold.” He’s a great talent, with a kindness to him and a really interesting face  (he looks so young, you can’t help but stare at his face and keep guessing what age he might be). In fact, I think I was brash enough to ask him and I think he said 36. But I digress … oh, and before I get back on track … I think he and Fowler are a couple. How cool is that?

Let’s cut to the chase, now. You and I both know that I don’t have a bike. And you and I both know that I darn well didn’t put my “bike money” into an RRSP. Yep, you guessed it — I bought one of King’s pieces.

But you wouldn’t even recognize it as his. It is in a radically different style and when I asked him about it, he explained that he’d completed a small series of paintings in this style when he’d been on a canoe trip. (Although, come to think of it, maybe it was a boat trip … the canvas is far too large for a canoe! Or maybe he works from photos after the fact?) There were no other pieces from the series and he’d heavily marked this one down in price — slashing it by more than half of its original price. I asked him why he’d reduced the price and he told me it’s because it was the last one left in the series. But I suspect it’s because he didn’t really like it, or at least he’s not particularly proud of it. Technically, it does betray flaws. But for me it was love at first sight. The feel of the Canadian forest just radiates off the canvas, and I am really attracted to the rich colours of the forest floor.

And this is why, my friends, when Hubby got back from his camping trip and asked me where my new bike was, I bit my lip nervously and told him that this piece was titled “Julie’s Bicycle.”

"Julie's Bicycle," by Andrew King

p.s. Max fell dead asleep in King’s studio and could not be woken so I had to carry him down those steep stairs. King was a total gentleman and carried “my new bike” out to the parking lot and to my car for me. Then I paid him with my “bike money,” which was all in twenty-dollar bills so it totally looked like we were conducting a drug deal in the parking lot and using a cute toddler as a ploy.


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Impractical Purchasing: The Bicycle Edition


I can stick to a budget, sure. But what I choose to spend my money on? Well, sometimes it ends up with me coming home with a bag of cereal that cost more than $10 bucks, while other times it has resulted in more than $100 spent on blue suede boots. Not so practical, I know. In this edition, however, the stakes are higher.

I had a budget for a bicycle. This was last autumn. As the cold weather approached, Hubby and I figured that the stores would have bicycle sales. And everyone in the family had a bike, except for me. Our new neighbourhood is awesome for biking — winding paths through forests, paths that lead right to parks. A bike would be a good thing.

Hubby and Stella had mountain-style bikes. But I had designs on something entirely different. You know the retro bikes that are oh so fashionable? Well, I can’t help falling for this fashion trend — I love them! LOVE.

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Sure, there’s no gears. They’re kind of clunky. And heavy. And probably not ergonomic. But a girl can’t help who she falls in love with, right?

I imagined a groovy little number that I could kit out with a basket and maybe even some handlebar streamers. If you think I have gone too far with the streamers … well, I guess I won’t mention my dream of a banana seat or hand-painted bell then. Whatever. As long as I could get the bike, I’d be in heaven. Well, the basket too. I needed that basket.

See how reasonable I am? A bike. A basket. Done.

Hubby and Stella had taken off on an overnight camping trip, so I took the opportunity to head straight to the Westboro area of Ottawa one sunny Saturday with Max. Since Westboro has a cluster of bike shops, I figured that this task could be easily accomplished in the three-hour window I had before my three-year-old would be cranky and looking for his nap time.

The first store I walked into had the perfect bike for me. More than just being retro, this bike had a funky paint job with flowers winding all over it. Unfortunately, it was a good hundred couple hundred dollars over the budget that Hubby and I had created for a bike. I knew it wasn’t because it was actually a better bike … let’s be real here — it was the cute paint job. It was the “trendy” factor that had spiked the price up. I started to have doubts. I ummed and ahhed while Max booted around on a display trike. Then, the time crunch hit — make a decision in the next minute before my toddler destroyed the store. And I ….

…. I walked.

I did turn back and gaze longingly at the bike in the front window. But I walked away with my head held high. I was making the right decision. The fiscally responsible decision.

So this is why, even though the sun is shining this spring, you won’t see me biking about the neighbourhood. I took that money and put it right into an RRSP and haven’t looked back.

Heh. Okay, not quite. It’s true I don’t have a bike, but I did spend the bike budget money.

You’ll have to tune in again though because the finale of Glee (Glee!) is on and this tap-tapping-away on my blog is totally distracting me from getting weepy about these kids graduating! This is serious stuff and I need to focus. 

Edited on May 24th to add: You can now read Part 2 here.


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Pillow Talk


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Okay, I want to talk pillows. (What, did you think I was talking about something else?? No, I really mean pillows! This is not a book review for Fifty Shades of Grey … sorry to disappoint.)

Like most things related to “home decor,” I have never taken an interest until we moved into a new family home last June. Whereas before I was addicted to stalking the MLS Guide for my favourite neighbourhoods, now I am addicted to stalking home decor magazines — both online and print. And of course I am steadily racking up a ton of new bloggers to read … I just love following their home updates and soaking in some of their creativity.

But back to pillows. I have never gone out and bought throw pillows before. First of all, in our old house, we never planned to keep the sofa since it was in need of retirement, so it seemed a waste to bother buying matching pillows for it. But also, because they are pricey. For one small bit of material and stuffing, you’re looking at anywhere up to $100! Sure, I’ve seen pillows priced at higher than that in design magazines, but the people buying those are certainly not living with children!

If you wander into HomeSense, you can find some great looking pillows for $25. This, however, comes with its own set of hazards. For one, there are so many choices it is hard to focus (I have this trouble in big stores — too much stuff ruins the shopping experience for me). But mostly, when you take that $25 and multiply it to the number of pillows you need to actually make a sofa look like one in a design magazine … well, let’s just say, it’s starting to seem ridiculous. Ridiculous because you just know they are going to end up being used to swat a sibling, rub greasy hands on, and generally take a ton of abuse by the urchins living in the house.

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However, on Mother’s Day, my girlfriend Jacqueline and I decided we deserved a little trip over to HomeSense. It wasn’t long before we were posturing about pillows and declaring ourselves “So Sarah!” (you know, Sarah Richardson, who can magically make a collection of random patterns look fabulous together). I walked out of the store with not one throw pillow, but five. Yeah, baby, I have five throw pillows. Look who’s made it to the big time, now!

So, for Mother’s Day, I bought myself pillows. Not a Kobo, as SNL suggested for you Fifty Shades of Grey fans — but pillows. Pillows! Who knew. But I tell ya, I am so darn happy with these pillows it just kills me! So you can keep your Kobo (and I’ll stick with my printed edition <smirk!>).

Here they are in all their glory.

Now I just need a carpet, Cloud White paint, and curtains. Lord help me!


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Sending Strength and Inspiration via the Seattle’s Children’s Hospital


My friend Cassie was diagnosed with a form of bone cancer in February. Since then, she and her family have been living through what most would describe as hell. But you wouldn’t know it from speaking with them — they are dealing with a brutal treatment regime one day at a time, and finding moments of joy where ever they can.  Just recently, she shared how her and her mother are supporting each other:

Our motto together has become “If we don’t laugh, we’ll cry, so let’s laugh instead.”

This approach to life — to choose the shared joy of  laughter — is also articulated beautifully in this piece, titled Joan of Arc, by Kelle Hampton. Kelle has a young daughter with Down Syndrome and her writing expresses anger with those who want to dismiss the good, and instead push her face in the bad.

It’s not that she doesn’t acknowledge the bad:

Here’s the thing–this person is completely right in the fact that it’s going to get worse–more hardship, far more difficult challenges [...].

You think I don’t know what’s ahead? You think I don’t have moments where I put myself there–ten years from now, thirty years from now, fifty years from now? You know what statistics say? I know damn well it’s a hard, hard road and there will be tears. But I trudge forward. Like Joan of freaking Arc, and I embrace the challenges and choose to be happy. Knock me down, Waves. I’ll get back up.

It’s just that she is working really, really damn hard to focus on all the reasons she has to be happy. In fact, I’m sure that “working hard” and even “really damn hard” are embarrassingly inadequate means of describing how people face the very difficult challenges that life throws around. And I know there must be days when it is utterly overwhelming.

So this video is for all of you that are trying hard to choose joy, but might just be having a bad day and need an extra injection of inspiration. From Cassie, to all you.

 

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