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Smuggs — here we come!


Our family didn’t downhill when I was growing up, nor did Hubby’s. We’d like to introduce the kids to downhill while they’re still young. You know … before that fear factor sets in. Fear stops a lot of people from doing a lot of things. But when you start young, or at least have a little introduction to something when you’re young, it always seems to make a difference. Like learning to swim as a kid versus an adult, or a new language, or sport — you name it. Our adult minds can put so many barriers in front of things that youthful zeal simply doesn’t allow for.

A budding nordic John Travolta.

I don’t even really care for downhill skiing though. It’s just an experience that I’d like my children to have. But when you visit a ski resort for a weekend, it is a HOLIDAY! And I love holidays. So I am so excited that we’re going to visit Smuggler’s Notch, or “Smuggs,” as it’s often called.

I’ve heard about Smuggler’s for ages and the thing that really caught my attention was the stellar reputation of their kids’ programs. The resort has invited my family to visit for a three-night stay this winter season. To help us learn more about the resort and plan our stay, we were sent a package, which arrived this weekend.

Wow, this is no ski hill and a few restaurants. This is like a winter Disneyland — there is so much to do!

We watched the DVD that came in the package on Sunday evening. Stella, who’s nine, is particularly excited about the zipline and the arts & crafts programs. Max, who’s three, is interested in the skiing with other children. And Hubby, who is snow-crazy, is excited that not only can he ski and snowboard, but he can also go ice-climbing.

As for me, I’m looking forward to having a proper ski lesson (normally I just point my skiis straight ahead and hold my breath down the green hills!) and taking part in a guided snow-shoe trek. But I’m also hoping that if the kids’ programs are as great as they are reputed to be, that I can grab a bit of “me time” while we’re there as well. Is that so wrong?


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A Day in the Land O’ Lakes


While I was on vacation a couple of weeks ago, an e-vite into my BlackBerry titled “Girls and Kids Day at the Beach.” Without reading the details, I just replied that I would be happy to partake.

And that day was yesterday. All up, there were six girlfriends and seven children invited up to a friend’s cottage for the day. Located in an area referred to as the Land O’ Lakes, the cottage was an easy drive from Ottawa. Just over an hour. Lucky for me, one of my girlfriends offered to drive me and my two munchkins up with hers in her minivan. So, without even having to drive, the schedule for the day was relax, relax, repeat!

We all arrived in the morning and brought a pot-luck lunch that was nibbled on for most of the day. I was so happy to see all the healthy foods because I am really trying to get myself back on track again after the moving-visitors-holidays-extravaganza of stress = poor eating and no exercise (yes, that’s my excuse and I’m sticking to it!). For my part, I made a huge salad with crisp snap peas, sweet red peppers, avocado and chucks of brie tossed in for extra good measure (normally I also include cashews in this salad, but two of the kids have nut allergies).

The schedule for the day was …. no schedule. We simply hung out by the beach area, which was super shallow so the kids could splash about. My daughter Stella is a fan of catching minnows and frogs, while some of the younger children were happy to play sand-castles.

And although Stella is a one-stop-shop of non-stop energy, even she couldn’t resist taking a few moments to simply enjoy the peace and beauty of the lake.

We also took the boat out into the middle of the bay so we could do some deep water swimming. Here we are, three heads a bobbing, having a refreshing swim.

Now, to be real for a moment, we girls didn’t actually get to sit down much since we were running after the toddlers (one of which is mine and is in the middle of toilet-training) in our group. But I knew that from the outset and set my expectations accordingly. And I think you can tell by looking at my face that the day exceeded my expectations:

So, here’s to girlfriends! And long live days at the lake! Jennifer, Jennifer, Julie, Jacqueline, April — Thanks.

Want to plan your own getaway in Land O’ Lakes? Easy! You can rent a cottage (Sharbot Lake and Bob’s Lake are particularly popular spots), set-up camp, or even book into a lodge. Best to bring up your own groceries since prices in the small villages can be high.

Go Girlfriend! This is a fun website that shares travel tips for Girlfriend trips, Adventure outings, and Spas in Canada, the Caribbean, and the United States. I’m submitting this post into their contest called #GGBliss, where the winner receives a ticket to the blogging conference called Blissdom Canada, taking place in October right around the time of my 40th Birthday.


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A Visit to The Royal Ontario Museum (ROM) in Toronto


For our family, a museum visit is often a highlight when we’re travelling. In fact, I think Hubby and I have taken in at least one museum in every large city we’ve ever visited. And last weekend we were in Toronto to farewell our out-of-town guests before they hopped on a cross-Canada train trip.

So before driving home on Sunday, we decided to squeeze in a tour of The Royal Ontario Museum, or “the ROM.” We debated whether we should bother or not because we could only spare a couple of hours (since we had to drive back to Ottawa that day) and also because we had two vehicles to park. But in the end, I knew how much Hubby wanted to see it, so we decided to go for it.

Established in 1912, the ROM describes itself as “among the world’s leading museums of natural history, and of world cultures.” I’d agree. This museum is world-class in terms of the facilities, collections, and special exhibitions.

One of four massive totem poles

Similar to the challenge that faced the Canadian Museum of Nature in Ottawa — how does one elegantly modify a historic stone architecture? — the ROM has recently undergone a partial transformation. It chose, via an international competition, to build what is called ” The Crystal,” with canted walls that do not touch the sides of the existing heritage buildings, save for where pedestrian crossing occurs and to close the envelope between the new form and the existing walls.

When it was opened in 2007, there were many who did not like the look of The Crystal (to say the least!), with one Globe & Mail writer referring to it as oppressive, angsty and hellish. What can I say? … I thought it looked spectacular. (And frankly, if it hadn’t been for the controversy over The Crystal’s architecture, I probably wouldn’t have even taken an interest in this museum at all.) Granted, if I had 270 million dollars to spend on something, I’m sure I could stretch it further than one museum reno. But perhaps that is why it’s so expensive to visit this museum (more on that later).

Here is a photo of The Crystal that I took from the street:

Once you enter the museum, you are inside The Crystal and its three-story atrium. And it was there that I nearly choked. On the entrance fees, that is.

For two adults and one child, we paid $81.50. (The general admission fee for an adult is is $24 and to also see the special exhibition, the fee is $31.) Let’s see … adult entry for The Louvre in Paris is $8, and children are under $3;  adult entry into the Museum of Modern Art in NYC is $20, and children under 16 are free; and the Uffizi Gallery in Italy is under $15 for an adult. Not sure how the ROM came up with its pricing, but I can’t recommend it as a family-friendly destination when it charges such a high entry fee for children over 4 years of age ($16 general admission, $19.50 with special exhibit entry) and does not offer a family group rate.

Okay, enough about the fees … we sucked it up because we had already trucked the whole family there, so we might as well see the place! And what a place it was! Enormous. In fact, in the three hours we spent there, we didn’t even see everything on the first floor! The first floor alone houses the following collections: Japan, Asian Special Exhibitions, China, Korea, Canadian Special Exhibitions, Canada, First People special Exhibitions, and First Peoples. Of those, we managed to see Japan, Asian Special Exhibitions, China, and Canada.

But my most memorable takeaway from our visit was the chance to see Edward Burtynsky’s work. I’d seen Burtynsky’s work in a documentary and it had left an impression on Hubby, Stella and I. This Canadian artist does large format (extremely large!) photography of industrial landscapes. On exhibit at the ROM was “Oil,” as described by the museum’s website as:

“Edward Burtynsky: Oil features fifty-three beautiful and provocative large-format photographs by internationally renowned Canadian artist Edward Burtynsky. His images explore the hotly-debated effects of oil extraction, our international dependency on the substance, and with an unflinching eye, Burtynsky presents us with the reality of oil production as its role in our civilization undergoes massive transformation.”

His massive photographs are so detailed and almost surreal that they don’t really register in your mind as photographs. And then when your mind does register that these images are real, and this is how we really live here on earth, you feel dirty, or at the very least, ridiculous in your slavish pursuit for oil. Burtynsky describes the overriding theme of his work as “nature transformed through industry,” and I would recommend checking out his work in person whenever you might get a chance. (Until then, you can check out his website which includes video clips and images.)

So that, my friends, was our visit to the ROM. (Oh, and then after paying the hefty fee to get in, the day got more expensive because both vehicles had parking tickets under the windsheilds when we returned to them. Awesome-sauce.)

Did I provide enough info for you to decide if you’d like to visit next time you’re in Toronto? Let me know if there is anything specific I can share.


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#Blog4NZ: New Zealand never leaves you


Blog4NZ is a grass-roots effort on the part of the international travel blogging community to promote all that is good about travel in New Zealand from the 21st to 23nd of March — the one-month anniversary of the quake. Tourism makes up approximately 10% of New Zealand’s GDP and it is essential for the world to know that New Zealand is open for business.

So … New Zealand! Where to start? Well, it was 1993, I had a one-way ticket and a one-year working holiday visa for Australia.

But before landing in Australia, my girlfriend and I were planning on taking advantage of the free stop that came with our plane ticket. We landed in Auckland, New Zealand with plans to spend one month travelling from the North Island all the way down to the South Island, where we would fly out of Christchurch. And what a month it was!

I have such exceptional and fond memories from our time in New Zealand. The combination of spectacular scenery with the genuine kindness extended to us from every Kiwi (code name for a New Zealander) we met … from a sweet older lady who invited us to stay with her at her home in the town of Rotorua, known for its geothermal mud pools and boiling crater lakes, to the countless strangers who picked us backpackers up on the side of the road and gave us a lift on our journey.

Honestly, if there is one place you must go visit before you die, it’s New Zealand.

 

Check out all there is to see in New Zealand — seriously, you’ll be amazed that one small island can offer everything from glaciers to beaches to rolling green hills dotted with sheep — at this site: http://www.newzealand.com/travel/Canada/.


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Are we there yet? (or why the heck do people go camping with their kids)


I’ve been more of a scattered mom than usual lately. The kind that forgets doctor’s appointments and perpetually arrives late or unprepared for the kids’ extra-curricular activities? Yeah, er, that’s me.

This life with young children, and work, and household maintenance … it really does feel like a hamster wheel sometimes, doesn’t it? Everyone TALKS about how to achieve balance, but I’m pretty sceptical about it being even possible. So, for now, I just keep running. It’s not so bad once you accept that you are indeed a scattered mom and that this is just simply life.

For today though, I’m home from work because my little guy spiked a fever in the middle of the night and he’s out of sorts. And the sleep deprivation that comes with caring for a sick toddler through the night is hanging heavily on me, so forgive me for lacking any original thoughts or passionate topics to raise with you … but, I do have something I’d really like to share.

It’s something I read last night in the issue of Expore magazine that just arrived in the mail yesterday. It’s a special edition that features the best stories from the past 30 years and it’s just chock full of ultra-great writing. But seeing how many of us have been trying to undertake the “camping experience” with our kids, this particular piece really resonated.

Are We There Yet?
By Bruce Ramsay
Originally published in the July/August 2005 issue of Explore and reprinted for this special edition

The breathless cliche goes something like this: to take children into the woods is to experience the wonder of all that surrounds us. But the truth is that yarding half-pints into the woods offers a frustration-to-bliss ratio closer to golf, or more likely, the carnal act that got you into trouble in the first place. So why do I take my kids?

Partly because I want them to have an image of me that includes mountains and streams. Partly because kids — unlike adults, who have been brainwashed by the positive affirmation industry — understand that YES, it is the destination, NOT the journey dammit. Partly because kids, until they hit 10, will laugh at most of your jokes, humble you by making you carry their baby dolls and stuffies past other hikers, hug trees without political intentions, shamelessly tell fantastic tales that have no basis in reality, don’t care how much you spent on your boots, can be scared by the simplest of ghost stories, drool mercilessly on your hat during shoulder rides, pull on your ears from their backpack, and understand the spiritual importance of hot chocolate.

But ultimately, the best reason for taking kids was revealed to me a few years back while hiking up Ha Ling Peak with my then 18-month-old daughter. As we stopped for a snack, we were passed by a man being led up the mountain by his two teenagers. As he paused to say hello to my daughter, he said, “That’s how we started years ago, and the secret is that when you take them as youngsters, someday down the road they will ask you to join them.”

Which is maybe why I laugh loudest these days when my kids pester me with , “Are we there yet?”

Did you enjoy this? I loved it and I think, if I had to pick my fave twist of words, I’d say it was the part about hot chocolate being a spiritual experience! You?

 

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