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A trip to Achray Campground in Algonquin Park, Ontario


I suspect that many camping families get themselves in a bit of a rut now and then. I think we find a magical campsite and then just keep going back and back. Sure, there’s nothing wrong with returning to the tried and true. Let’s a lot of advantages actually: kids often feel happy when they’re in familiar surroundings and mothers often feel happy when they now how to navigate themselves through the forest to the toilets in the middle of the night.

For us, we like Acray Campground in Algonquin Park. So here’s the deal: I will tell you about our magical place, and you tell me about yours! That way we can both branch out one day and try new campsites. You game? Okay, here goes …

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I am now freshly showered, red wine glass in hand after a gorgeous couple of days in the woods. Getting away to a forest really does make a person feel like they’ve had a vacation (not just a weekend at home doing errands and getting laundry done!). The natural outdoors-person already knows this; it’s in their blood. But for me, I can’t help but equate outdoors with the nuisance of mosquito bites and terrible toilets (or, sometimes none at all). Sorry, it’s just the way it is.

However, the rest of my clan is all crazy about camping. And they really want me to experience the whole thing with them too. We have made a compromise on this front. One which, without a doubt, lowers our “camping cool” factor by several notches. And that’s the pop-up camper trailer. This little beauty gives us a comfortable sleep and an escape when bad weather hits.

Also, the fall season is cool. This makes the bugs bearable in my world. So bearable, in fact, that I declared we should make sure to get some more camping in this season (Hubby admirably tried to hide the fact that he was choking in shock).

Reading, eating & canoeing: Camping really isn’t so bad, afterall

Okay, so what is there to do at this campsite? Well, quite a lot if you’d like, or as little as you’d like as well.

There is a small store at the campground, housed in a gorgeous old stone building. Here, you can pick up firewood, a few bits of memorabilia, or even an ice cream treat. I can’t say we really ever use this store, but since it’s back-to-school season and since Stella is not fond of the selections in the malls, we picked out two great t-shirts.

The campsites offer quite a bit of room between each other, so it feels much more “rustic” that other places we’ve been. The privacy is much appreciated, especially when another family (or mine!) has a toddler going through a melt-down over some unknown, or bizarre, cause.

Naturally, you can spend endless amounts of time searching out and admiring nature. My favourite creatures are the chipmunks, but we also saw some cool wood bugs, caterpillars, moths and this frog who still had the end of his tail from his tadpole stage:

The most beautiful feature though is definitely the beach. It is beautiful, sandy and the water is crystal clear. Hubby described it as “tea-coloured,” which I think it perfect. The reflection from the sand does make the water seem like a gorgeous ice tea.

At the beach, you can do the usual beach-y things. Like pull up a camp chair and read a book while the kids make sandcastles. Or you can take off for a canoe trip. We have our own, but you can also rent a canoe.

Although we will never give up the traditional camp treat of s’mores, we don’t do hotdogs or baked beans. After a day outside, a yummy meal tastes even yummier. As example, we ate chicken curry with rice on Saturday night. The curry is pre-made in a tin, and the chicken and rice are cooked separately on a Coleman style cook-top.

No, of course we didn’t forget the Naan bread!

Special attractions: The Jack Pine and the Barron Canyon trails

Right from the Achray Campground, you can take an easy trail called “The Jack Pine Trail.” I won’t go into much details, because I’ve already written about it before here. But suffice it to say, it’s a special time in Canadian art history, so it feels special just to be in that spot.

This trip, we did the “Barron Canyon Trail.” I say “we,” but Stella and Hubby have already done this one before. Like the Jack Pine Trail, you do not need to be fit to pull off this trail. It’s an easy route that you can take at your own pace. However, there is an uphill that most toddlers would easily tire on. Here you can see our toddler Max on Hubby’s shoulders:

Once you get up to the canyon, it’s all easy-walking from there. But that doesn’t mean you can let that toddler out of your arms — or at least your very tightly gripped hand!

Just in case this descriptive illustration does nothing for you, here is a picture from an edge:

And here is a picture of the magnificent view:

But even better than this view are the memories that I now have locked away in my heart. With Stella, it was taking the time to just sit still, listen to her stories, and stare at her beautiful freckled-cheeked face. With Max, it was the time we had on an early morning walk together in our PJs so the others could have a sleep-in, as well as the absolute look of delight when a chipmunk scampered all the way up my leg! And with Hubby, it was sitting quietly with the crackling campfire reflecting on his face while we sipped some red wine under the stars.

Follow your bliss: So, those were my moments of bliss from this past weekend and I’ll be looking for you to share your best camping tips in the comments so I can follow yours too! I’m also going to enter this post into the #GGBliss contest that the travel website Go Girlfriend is hosting for a ticket to Blissdom Canada.

Want more camping bliss? Easy! Here is my archive of posts that include the word “camping” in them and here are adventure travel posts from the Go Girlfriend site.

 


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The Project Priceless Wedding: Was this social experiment a success?


It’s 6:30 am and the house is quiet, and I am fully dressed and ready to walk out the door. Normally, I would just head into the office and catch up on some things, but this morning I want to take some time to tell you about the Project Priceless wedding. I’ve already told you a little bit about why I was invited to this wedding, and the hoops I jumped through to get there. But there is more, so much more.

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Here is how Jordan and Brian explain the Project Priceless wedding on their website.

Project: Priceless is an experiment. The goal: to get Brian and Jordan married in the next year, as free-of-charge as possible. The method: the happy couple will borrow, trade, and accept offers of all the items and services that make up a wedding. Everyone who contributes to the occasion gets a shout-out, and any businesses or artisans who contribute get big shout-outs. Contribute, or follow along just for fun to see how things are going.

Can a community chip in and create a priceless wedding for an awesome couple? Let’s find out…

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I do love a wedding. But mostly, if I’m honest, I think I love weddings because they allow me to be flooded with all the memories of my own wedding, 15 years ago.

While so much of Jordan and Brian’s wedding was radically different than my own (like the Chaplan, Dr. Alan Viau, inviting all the guests to use the wedding hashtag and tweet out photos, for example!), there was so much love in the air that while my body was sitting in the fairytale setting of Stanley’s Olde Maple Lane Farm with the sun shining down on this young couple …

my heart was under century-old gum trees in southern Australia, saying “I do” one more time …

While our decor for the reception was freshly cut sunflowers that had been lovingly grown from seeds by my mother-in-law and her husband on their farm, the Project Priceless decor included bright green and purple pom-poms that a friend had taught them out to make:

I’m sure you’ll agree that this decor looks fabulous! It was so fresh and fun, I just loved it. But what really made it all so especially cool were the personal touches. Imagine my delight, for example, when I sat at my place-setting and found a handwritten and handcrafted card thank-you card.

In fact, absolutely everything was handcrafted! Countless — countless! — hours must have gone into the preparations.

And in case you’re wondering why there were crayons in the photo above, it’s because each place-setting had one of those paper placements like they provide to children in restaurants to keep them busy. On it, guests were invited to complete a custom crossword puzzle as well as to doodle a picture of the bride and groom.

There were also a number of new traditions that, if I were to be married today, I would certainly love to incorporate into my wedding. I think I already mentioned the wedding tattoos. I love the idea of wedding tattoos, and I love this specific tattoo that Jordan and Brian had created by artist Sarah Rogers of Living Colour Tattoo.

I also think a candy table is, of course, pure genius! This table in particular was particularly amazing because it was from none other than The Candy Store. Oh so good! And all colour-coordinated to match the wedding colours of green, orange and purple!

And I would certainly follow this tradition: An In-Spirit Table. For so many reasons, I thought this was really special. This table was a collection of memorabilia from those who could not make it to the wedding, as well as those who had already passed on. These people were there “in spirit.”

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At the end of the evening, when the cake had been cut, the first dances had been had, and I felt I had done the best job I could as a live-tweeter, I slipped out into the evening air back to the parking lot to drive myself home.

I looked up and took a moment to admire the stars, so bright in the country sky. I had only been here at this wedding for but a few hours, and yet, it felt like I’d been wisked away to somewhere magical.

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When I got home, Hubby asked me how it had all gone. I told him it had been wonderful, just wonderful. Still slightly baffled by it all, he said, “Why was it called ‘project priceless’? Because it hadn’t cost them anything?”

I said, yes, I guess so. But I knew it was so much more. This social experiment was much more than a wedding without a price tag. So much more.


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Getting Myself to the Project Priceless Wedding


So yes, I did get invited to a virtual stranger’s wedding, as I shared in yesterday’s post. (Although, theoretically, she’s not a “virtual” stranger because we chit-chat virtually, I just don’t know her in real life.)

When Jordan sent me the details about the Project Priceless wedding, the only thing that registered in my head was the date: August 22nd. I couldn’t recall anything already scheduled for that date, so I just replied “yes” right away to her email. And then I told Hubby that he was coming to a wedding with me sometime at the end of August.

Weeks pass and I realize that the wedding is fast approaching. My way of coping with the multi-taking world of working motherhood is to function on a “need to know basis.” This system helps keep the clutter out of my brain. What this means is that I didn’t figure I needed to know all the details about the wedding locale and time before accepting. I only needed to know that information the day before, or maybe even on the day of, to get myself there on time and to the right location.

This “need to know basis” of filing info in my brain works 9 out of 10 times. Unfortunately, this was going to be one of those times when the system failed me.

I dug through my emails and pulled out the invitation. Oh. Oh dear.

I had assumed that the wedding would take place on a Saturday and the reception would be in the evening. But that is a traditional wedding. Not a project priceless wedding! Of course, with everything for the wedding being a donation from the community, the day of the week and the time weren’t going to be when all the other paying customers have their weddings booked. I hadn’t thought of that at all. The wedding was scheduled for a Monday night. Oops, Hubby wasn’t going to be able to be my date after all. I quickly shot off an email to Jordan begging her not to scream or cry, but that I was going to have to muck with her table settings. She took it well. Or at least she took it with a shot of vodka (who’s to know really, since I don’t actually know her that well, remember?).

Okay, next challenge was that the ceremony was scheduled for 5 pm. Oh, 5 pm. Hmm … I guess I could get to work at 8 and leave at 4 and still manage to pull it off.

Nope. One more detail that I hadn’t noted in my lovely “need to know” system — the location was in Edwards. More than a full hour’s drive from my office in Kanata.

Alrighty, then. I’ll need to do a quick change at work and leave at 3:30 pm. Not ideal, because the deliverables at the office will still need to be delivered, which means extra hours for me in the evening.

All in all, I was getting pretty irked at my “need to know” system. But I’d already committed to attend, so I was just going to have to make this work.

So as 3:30 pm on Monday hit, I slipped out of the office and to the women’s washrooms. Here is the before:

I have thrown a striped jersey jacket over a little black dress. Normally, I would never show the knees in the office, but what the heck, I needed a quick change! To make up for the skin show, I had slipped on some cute, but conservative, shoes and hoped no one would notice the difference.

All I had to do was take off the jersey, throw on a silky shawl (which has great karma since it was from my BFF’s wedding when I was one of her bridesmaids ten years ago) over top of the dress and then change shoes (more great karma since I bought these three months after my son was born to wear to another excellent couple’s wedding in Australia).

All in all, the quick change worked out just fine. Unfortunately, there is nothing “quick” I can do about those bags under my eyes though!

With the quick change complete, I rushed back out to my car only to realize that I’d left the driving directions up at my office. I was not going to go back to the office all decked out — especially at 3:30 pm! So, I made an emergency call to Hubby to google-up some directions for me.

I finally took off on my way, but as the minutes in the drive passed, I was started to sweat thinking I was going to arrive late — right in the middle of the ceremony … you know, “Does anyone have any objections?” and out comes Julie stumbling in her heels from the parking lot. Not a good vision, let me tell you!

As I was starting getting close, the road turned into a dirt road. Oh oh, I hope I didn’t take a wrong turn! Eventually I saw with relief the sign to Stanley’s Old Maple Lane Farm, where the wedding was going to be held. I turn the wheel into the drive only to realize that the gate is closed. Gah! A panicked swinging of the head suggested that the next lane up was the one for me. As I start to back up, a blonde woman in grey Prius starts turning into the same laneway right behind me. I start laughing like a crazy lady …

The cute blonde in the Prius is my co-tweeter for this event: Andrea from a peek inside the fishbowl. And she looks like she’s just as anxious as me that she’s going to arrive in the middle of the ceremony too!

But alas, we arrive, and the whole scene is a picture of calm on the farm. It seems the ceremony isn’t starting until 5:30 pm! We take a few deep breaths, and get ourselves ready for our roles as live-tweeters.

photo credit: Andrea Tomkins

To be continued …. (in the meantime, you can check out Andrea’s post on the Project Priceless wedding) …..


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The Project Priceless Wedding (alternate title: I’m going to a stranger’s wedding tonight and will have my face in my BlackBerry the whole time)


Hubby is, how shall we say, an “analog” man. By choice, he does not use a cell phone, uses email only sparingly, and does not engage in any social media sites. So, needless to say, he finds my fascination with my BlackBerry, blog and twitter account somewhat baffling. But I think this latest development really takes the cake in his mind.

Tonight, I’m attending a stranger’s wedding and I’ll be live-tweeting it the entire time. Here’s how he noted this on our family calendar:

So, yes, I am going to “someone’s” wedding.

Well, to be fair, the bride is not a complete stranger. I did speak with her for about 15-20 minutes at the Social Capital Conference, and introduced her to you in my recap post of that event. That’s right — it’s Jordan, and the Project Priceless wedding.

In keeping with her and finance’s social media focus, she’s asked a few local bloggers to attend the wedding and “cover it” by live-tweeting. Sure, it’s a little unusual, but whatever. I’ll be there. I’ve got my heels waiting for me in the car for when I slip out of the office, and they’re a shiny black patent — you know, to match with my central accessory: my smart phone.

If you’d like to follow along, the twitter hashtag for the wedding is #ppwedding and start time is 5pm. No worries if you don’t have a twitter account, Jordan explains how you can follow along.


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This Year’s Pinata: A Flying Dragon


On Friday, Stella turned nine years old. And in keeping with the birthday traditions around here, a piñata was a usual must. While last year, the angler fish was the creature of choice, the mighty dragon is this year’s. Stella’s favourite is the Chinese Lung Dragon, which looks like this:

 

Image credit: www.draconian.com

Time and materials were in short supply this morning before the full extended family were going to descend upon the house this afternoon for a BBQ party. But Hubby managed to whip up something cool though and here is a rendition of a flying dragon:

Hey! Look at me, I'm flying!


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