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New Advertiser Welcome: Canada’s National Arts Centre!


 Orchestras in the park 2010
Photo credit: Orchestras in the Park 2010, NAC Flicker Stream

As a former gleek, it gives me particular joy to welcome Canada’s National Arts Centre as an advertiser with Coffee with Julie!

My most recent visit to Canada’s National Arts Centre was with my husband to take in The Massey Lecture Series with Douglas Coupland, and some of my very first visits to the National Arts Centre were with my mom when she took me to see The Nutcracker Ballet. And now, as a mom myself, I am so looking forward to taking my eight-year-old daughter to her very first Nutcracker this Saturday.

It is one of my fondest hopes that she too grows to appreciate the many joys of live theatre, dance and music. The National Arts Centre is my helping hand in this endeavour with its programs specific to youth. The Kinderconcert Series is really fabulous for the very young (I described my experience here), while the Live Rush program goes a long way to help students (remember living on butter pasta as a university student?!) afford a special night out.

So, dear readers, as a supporter of my little coffee spot here, I hope you will consider the National Arts Centre if you’re looking for a special gift for someone on your holiday list — as either a family outing, a date night or a girlfriends’ night on the town! There’s something for everyone, really.

p.s. Don’t forget — Glee‘s on tonight! ;)


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The word is malaise!


I get quite happy when I finally hit the exact right word I’ve been looking for after fumbling about using words that didn’t quite fit.

For instance, I was working on this presentation about OEM boards and their design implications. For weeks, we were using the word “flexible” in the presentation and then it dawned on me just as I was about to press “send” that the right word was “versatile.” I got inordinately excited about this–versatile!–so my boss probably thinks I’m a tad eccentric, but hey, I was excited about it!

Now, thanks to Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project, I now know that the word I’ve been looking for is not itchy, or U-curve or even mid-life crisis – it’s midlife malaise.

Malaise! It’s perfect, isn’t it? Here’s how she describes it:

“I wasn’t depressed and I wasn’t having a midlife crisis, but I was suffering from midlife malaisea recurrent sense of discontent and almost a feeling of disbelief. “Can this be me?” [...]

“Is this really it?” I found myself wondering, and answering, “Yep, this is it.”

But though at times I felt dissatisfied, that something was missing, I also never forgot how fortunate I was. When I woke up in the middle of the night, as I often did, I’d walk from room to room to another to gaze at my sleeping husband tangled in the sheets and my daughters surrounded by their stuffed animals, all safe. I had everything I could possiblly want–yet I was failing to appreciate it. (p. 2)

So, at only a few pages into the book, I’m very glad to have bought it this weekend. Just for that word alone–Malaise!

I was never planning to buy it though. It struck me as one of those trendy books where a person thinks of something wacky to do and then chronicles it simply to get a book published at the end of it. But I was introduced to Rubin and her work by Andrea, because while I was trying to get a “celebrity sighting” of The Bloggess at BlogHer, Andrea was trying to see if she could spot Rubin. I trust Andrea’s taste; so if she thought Rubin and her book were great, then I was going to give it the benefit of the doubt.

Plus, I just finished reading the book Freedom by Jonathan Franzen, whose characters, although exquisitely drawn, are so deeply entrenched in their own midlife malaise that I thought I needed a fresh break. Something light. Something positive.

What Rubin ends up deciding to do to overcome her “malaise” is to see if she could make herself happier but consciously working on it. She takes on happiness as if it is a project and charts her tasks with checkmarks and x’s along the way. She allocates a subject to focus on each month, with tasks related to those subjects. So for example, she chooses “Energy” for her launch month of January. Drawing on research insights related to energy and happiness, she identifies tasks to take on. So for January, she must: Go to sleep earlier; exercise better; toss, restore, organize; tackle a nagging task; and act more energetic.

I’m really looking forward to following Rubin’s journey, and picking up some extra insights along the way too.

  • Have you read The Happiness Project yet? Why not read along with me!
  • Tell me what you think about making happiness a project with to-do lists and charts, like Rubin does.
  • And last but not least, I’m looking for great book recommendations to help me get through this winter. Do share your faves! 

Am I Fresh?



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Boot Camp Experience, Part 4: How I feel at the one-week mark


So, I managed to get myself signed up for Boot Camp AND I managed to show up to the first session. But how did the first full week go?

Really well! After only one short week, I am already stronger. I can do more sit-ups, more push-ups and more squats.

This image is an original untitled work by Krista Jenkins.

And there really is nothing more gratifying than getting out of bed and feeling sore muscles. Yes, you heard me right! When you’ve incubated two babes and haven’t felt a stomach muscle since then, then it actually feels exciting to have a mild ache in your core area. (It’s easy to believe that those stomach muscles simple disintegrated after being pulled to the limit.)

As for the actual program itself, well, as I noted in my Part 2, I really hadn’t counted on all the extra work between classes. I thought I was committing myself to two evenings a week. The in-between stuff is extremely challenging to fit into the schedule (that has included children with the flu, thank you very much!), and I’m not going to beat myself up for it. The way I see it … two classes a week is MUCH better than what I was doing before. Which was, er, was nothing.

So far, here’s where I see the Booty Boot Camp program excelling:

  • Excellent, highly qualified and personable instructor (Lauri).
  • Each session is completely different, so it’s impossible for you or your muscles to get bored.
  • There are 8 locations in my home town alone, so it makes it easy to find one near you.
  • If you have to miss a session, you can do a make-up class at another location.
  • The provided DVDs for home exercise are a nice bonus and even though I haven’t really used it, my friend Mandy has been diligently using them.
  • The pricing is reasonable ($159 Cdn for 4 weeks) and the only equipment required is a yoga mat.
  • Your questions are welcomed and answered immediately via your instructor or via the Booty Boot Camp twitter account (@BootyCampFit)

And so far, here’s where I see the Booty Camp program could improve:

  • The branding and materials seem silly and almost patronizing rather than motivational. But that could just be jaded ol’ me. As example, in the guidebook that we’re provided on the first night, it suggests making a “vision board” to help keep you focused on your goals. To make the vision board, we’re to cut out pictures from women’s magazines. Um, no thanks! I think I’ll just focus on seeing my energy levels increase and feeling stronger rather than looking at photoshopped pictures of 14-year-old models dressed up in big-girl clothes.
  • The program really seems targeted to the already moderately fit, or at least not the overweight or obese. As example, the guidebook shows the owner’s “before” and “after” pics. In her “before” picture, she is wearing a bikini, appears about 18 years old, and looks great (if you asked me). But here’s a hint: my age group has disponsible income too and we’re a great market for you!
  • The recipes of the day are very difficult to use since the ingredients are not things I generally have in my cupboard. It would be better to send me a week’s worth on the weekend so I can get all the groceries for the week.

So, dear friends, as you can see, I have found far more pro’s than con’s with the program and I will persist in getting my butt to boot camp each week! And I will be sure to do a summary post at the end of my four-week program.

I know that many Coffee with Julie readers are also doing the Booty Boot Camp program and I’d love to hear how you’re finding it!

Are you doing another work-out program that is making your feel great — tell us all about it!

What are your tips for staying motivated to your exercise program?


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Brownies: Oh, the places you will go!


This year is Stella’s first year in Brownies. And so far, it’s the only organized activity she’s really shown an interest in. I have to say, I can’t blame her!

The programming for Brownies really is fantastic because every week is something new. So far, the girls have had an evening of sewing, of speaking with a Canadian Air Forces pilot, and most recently, a visit to a fully automated dairy farm.

It was the last visit – the farm – that inspired the title for this blog posting. Because, although hubby and I bought this Dr. Seuss book as Stella’s very first book when she was a wee newborn, I did not realize that I too would be on the journey to all these places!

So without further adieu …. Oh, the places I you will go as a Brownie helper! First there was the weekend of camping. And now, a series of learnings that I had the pleasure of taking in at a dairy farm.  

  • A dairy farm comes with a very strong smell.
  • The deep dark earth that the cows are standing and laying in is actually not earth, but their own dung.
  • Dung is very warm. The cows like lying in the dung.
  • When you point out how cute a new born calf is, the girls will instead ask what the pink wet stuff lying on the dung is.
  • The girls will quietly accept the answer from the Brownie Leader that the pink stuff is “after birth.”
  • The girls will then turn towards the mom helper and ask what “after birth” is.
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